Jul 14, 2010 0
Should We Break Up With Someone If a Psychology Test Predicts We Will in the Future?
Ronald Rogge Answers
I would not give that advice for a couple reasons.
First, the test is designed to be a difficult test of skill. That is part of the way we are able to assess people’s underlying attitudes toward their partners—by keeping their conscious mind quite busy with a fast-paced task. However, because it is a difficult task, a small portion of people will do poorly on the task simply because it is too confusing or difficult for them, not because they are likely to break up.
Second, the test predicted break ups over 12 months. That is quite a long time and could give individuals more than enough time to try to strengthen their relationships—particularly if those relationships are still important to them. The test assesses attitudes, but attitudes can change for the better.
If their performance on the test suggested that their implicit attitude toward their partner was growing more negative than positive (suggesting greater risk for break up), I would suggest that they use that feedback as a wake-up call to reinvest in their relationship. This could be as simple as spending more quality time together or treating one another with more kindness and less anger on a day-to-day basis. Small changes like that can make a big difference over time.
If you are interested in taking the test (as part of a follow-up study currently under way), go to my webpage or directly to the survey itself.
Ronald Rogge is a professor of psychology at the University of Rochester.



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