Get Religion and Get Laid?

male-femaleFrom Tom Rees of Epiphenom:

Humans adapt their mating strategies according to what they think their chances are. For example, when there are more men than women, people marry earlier and divorce less. When there are more women, the opposite applies. The supposition is that when women are in a “buyer’s market,” they are more able to demand fidelity. What’s more, when women are shown an array of attractive, promiscuous women, they’re more likely to reject the notion that casual sex is OK.
How does religion fit into this? Douglas Kenrick of Arizona State University, who’s an expert on human mating strategies, has set out to investigate.
He started with a hypothesis. He suspected that when women faced more competition, they would also report being more religious. The idea is that being more religious will somehow force prospective partners to be more faithful.
Now, to me, that doesn’t really make sense. You would expect women in a competitive marketplace to want other people (especially men) to be more religious, but not themselves. If women are in a position to demand fidelity, then men would respond by claiming to be religious (in an attempt to persuade women that they are a good, faithful “catch”). But if men were in demand, then they could demand less “religiously virtuous” relationships.
But that’s really a moot point because Kenrick didn’t find what he expected to.
What he did was show students pictures of six attractive men or six attractive women (the ruse was that they were helping improve a fictional dating service). He then asked them about their religiosity.
It turned out that neither men nor women said they were more religious after seeing pictures of the opposite sex. But both men and women reported being more religious after seeing pictures of the same sex. So, when you remind people of the competition, they get to thinking that the mating odds are stacked against them. And they respond (at least, these U.S. students respond) by claiming to be more religious.
It’s a puzzling result if you start from the assumption that people assert their religiosity in order to advertise their sexual fidelity. Why on earth should women claim to be religious when that might make them less attractive to potential mates?
If these responses aren’t about advertising fidelity, what can explain them? I think it’s simple. In the United States, religion is a social norm. Atheists are outsiders. So, if you want to make yourself look attractive, then you claim to be religious.

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